发朋友圈几乎已经成了手机党的日常，可是你造发到朋友圈的内容和你的个人形象息息相关吗？今天小编为你揭秘朋友圈里的潜规则，顺便送你一个能在朋友圈里提升个人形象的大礼包~
一般而言，朋友圈里最多这三种状态的人：
A. 我很忙：忙着加班、忙着学习、忙着出差、忙着开会、忙着带孩子……
B. 我很有品位：我爱大自然的细节、我爱精美的食物、我爱逛书店、我享受一个人的独处……
C. 热爱知识、关注民生、正义感爆棚，同情心泛滥……
很明显，这三个朋友圈里的典型内容，不仅仅是在记录生活，也是在不停地向大家暗示“我是一个什么样的人”。
这就是心理学中所说的“形象管理”（image management）——你希望在别人心中创造某种形象，于是你便选择那些更能展示这种形象的生活片断。
如何在朋友圈管理个人形象？1. 微信朋友圈是你在另一个空间的生存方式。它不是朋友圈，它就是你，是你的公众人格和隐形简历。
2. 最好的朋友圈状态是“在什么山上唱什么歌”：工作的时候，斗志满满；休息的时候，珍惜时光。天天晒吃喝玩乐，会显得玩物丧志；每天晒加班，则会令人生厌。要显示自己安排生活、管理时间的能力，而不是经常地抱怨。
3. 永远不要在朋友圈说自己不好的事情，哪怕是自嘲也尽量不要。同样，如果有人在朋友圈自嘲或者自黑，除非是能开得起玩笑的铁杆好友，你的回复一定应该是：“你不胖！”“挺好的呀！”
4. 观察并学习你喜欢的人的朋友圈。如果发现某个朋友写同一件事，见识比你高明，态度比你阳光，有更多的赞和评论，那就应该去学习和效仿。
5. 善用“分组提醒”功能。如果想加强和特定朋友的关系，就选择“@某好友”提醒他们看，这样对方会感受到，你是把他当作特殊的人来对待的。
6. 朋友圈是了解一个人最便捷的渠道。经常提醒大家“我是一个什么样的人”，是强化个人形象的好方法。
7. 不要在朋友圈发负能量，尤其不要发含含糊糊、指桑骂槐的负能量。对号入座，最容易群伤。就算没有得罪人，担心你的人一拥而上的关心和询问，也要浪费很多时间解释。
8. 谈论失败时，加点儿幽默感在里面。如果对自己的幽默感没有信心，就不要谈论失败。
9. 不要过多展示个人生活的细节。微信现在逐渐转向工具的属性，越来越多的生人出现在朋友圈里，过多暴露自己的生活细节，是很不明智和很不得体的。
10. 展示一些独处的时间，会拉近和看朋友圈的好友的距离。夜跑、瑜伽、钓鱼、看花、放风筝、喝茶、做手工，都很像一个人在做，也是放空自己、排解压力的好方法。
11. 硬要对比的话，晒宠物比晒娃强，晒娃比秀恩爱强。不要真觉得“撒狗粮”是温暖的事，没那么多人真正关心你的家庭生活。每次大家在看朋友圈收获你信息的同时，也都在重新评估你的价值。
12. 除了经营朋友圈的内容，也要积极经营朋友圈的“关系”——对别人朋友圈的内容要有反馈意识。具体可采用“三级反馈系统”：最简单的点赞、特定的内容评论，最大技巧在第三级：如果对方发出了比较特殊的内容，比如生病或者有大事，最好的方式是直接私信表示关心。
13. 请谨记，朋友圈状态只应有三条：我挺忙，但很好；我很强，且有用；我这人很有趣。
最适合发朋友圈的96句英文金句
最后送给大家96条最适合发到朋友圈里的英文金句，分分钟让你在朋友心中正能量爆棚，拿走不谢↓↓
01 If I could, I surely would.
如果可以，我绝对愿意！
02 May there be enough clouds in your life to make a beautiful sunset.
愿你的生命中有足够的云翳，来造成一个美丽的黄昏。
03 The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can’t have them.
失去某人，最糟糕的莫过于，他近在身旁，却犹如远在天边。
04 No pains, no gains.
一分耕耘，一分收获。/不劳则无获！
05 Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get.
生活就像一盒巧克力,你永远不知道下一个是什么。——《阿甘正传》
06 You must always have faith in who you are!
相信自己 坚持自己
07 The longest day has an end.
最难过的日子也有尽头。—— Howell 贺韦尔
08 Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要为结束了而哭泣，应该为过去了而微笑。
09 When you feel like hope is gone, look inside you and search your soul. you will find a hero lies in you. dreams are hard to follow, but don't let anyone steal your dream.
当你感觉希望不在的时候，看一下自己的内心世界，搜索一下自己的灵魂，你会找到一个英雄在你心中。梦想可能很难实现，但是不要让任何人偷走你的梦想。
10 To be, or not to be - that is the question
生存还是毁灭，这是一个问题。——《哈姆雷特》
11 And forever has no end.
永永远远，永无止境。
12 Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因为结束而哭泣。微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。
13 Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式来爱你,那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。
14 When falling in love, some lose their head, others lose their heart.
在陷入情网的时候，有些人丢了头脑，另一些人丢了心。
15 Happiness is good health and a bad memory.
幸福是良好的健康加上糟糕的记性。
16 Love is the only thing that holds the dark at bay.
唯有爱可以把黑暗囚在波港湾里。
17 Love is a game that two can play and both win.
爱是两个人玩的双赢游戏。
18 Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.
爱不是从相互凝视之中获得的，倒是可以由同朝一个方向眺望而产生。这是生活给予我们的教训。
19 Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, loving someone deeply gives you courage.
被爱给你力量，爱人给你勇气。
20 The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with heart.
世界上最美好最漂亮的东西是看不见的，也摸不着的。它们必须用心去感应。
21 The hardest part is being away from you…the best part will be when we’re together again. Missing you, with all my heart.
最难莫过离你而去…最好莫过重新欢聚。全心想你。
22 I never consider ease and joyfulness the purpose of life itself.
我从来不认为安逸和享乐是人生本来的目的。
23 I am not afraid of tomorrow for I have seen yesterday and love today.
我不害怕明天，因为我经历过昨天，又热爱今天。
24 The value of life lies not length of days, but in the use of we make of them.
生命的价值不在于能活多少天，而在于我们如何利用这些日子。
25 Courage is the ladder on which all the other virtues mount.
勇气是其他美德攀登的梯子。
26 Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.
与其诅咒黑暗，不如燃起蜡烛。
27 You don’t love a girl because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her!
你不是因为她的美丽而爱她，而她却因为你的爱而美丽。
28 Love alone could waken love!
只有爱才能唤醒爱！
29 Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
在遇到梦中人之前，上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人;在我们终于遇见心仪的人时，便应当心存感激。
30 Enjoy when you can, and endure when you must.
能享受时可尽兴，须忍受时当坚持。
31 Friendship is a sheltering tree.
友情犹如大树，为你遮风挡雨。
32 We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.
我们必须勇于做自己，不管这个自己有多可怕，有多怪异。
33 A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be.
拥有朋友是最美好的一件事，成为别人的朋友是最美妙的一件事。
34 Only you can control your future.
只有你自己可以掌控你的未来。
35 Happy he who learns to bear what he cannot change.
学会承受无法改变的事情，就会幸福。
36 Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.
不要让你做不到的事妨碍了你能做到的事。
37 What seems to us as bitter trials are often blessings in disguise.
我们看起来似乎痛苦的试炼，常常是伪装起来的好运。
38 Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.
成功是经历一次次失败，却从不丧失热情。
39 The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.
愚者追求远方的快乐，智者播种脚下的幸福。
40 We convinced our entire generation that this is a battle that we could win.
我们让整整一代人相信，这场战争我们会打赢。——《独立日：卷土重来》
41 Seeing is believing. But is it a truth?
都说眼见为实，可那就是真理吗？——《惊天魔盗团2》
42 You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.
你无须见到楼梯全貌，只需要迈出第一步。
43 Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
就地开始，用你所有的，做你所能做的。
44 Follow your bliss and don't be afraid, and doors will open where you didn't know they were going to be.
追随你的幸福吧！不要害怕，幸福之门会在你意想不到的地方开启。
45 By the time a man realizes that his father was right, he has a son who thinks he's wrong.
等你的儿子跟你叫板时，你才能幡然醒悟原来自己的父亲是正确的。
46 You can never quit. Winners never quit, and quitters never win.
你永远都不能放弃！成功者从不言弃，放弃者永远无法成功。
47 If you would be loved, love, and be loveable.
如果你想要被爱，就要去爱，并要让自己值得被爱。
48 Not he who has much is rich, but he who gives much.
拥有的多并不算富有，给予的多才算富有。
49 If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend six hours sharpening my ax.
如果我有八小时砍倒一棵树，我会拿六小时来磨斧头。
50 Action is the foundational key to all success.
行动是所有成功的根本。
51 Happiness depends upon ourselves.
幸福与否我们自己说了算。
52 Life will bring you pain all by itself. Your responsibility is to create joy.
生活本身会带给你痛苦，你的责任是创造快乐。
53 The most important traits of a ninja are speed, stealth and precision!
忍者最重要的特点就是速度、隐身和精准！——《忍者神龟》
54 Success does not consist in never making mistakes but in never making the same one a second time.
成功并不在于从不犯错，而在于不重蹈覆辙。
55 Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the face.
永远不要垂下头。要高昂着头，直面这世界。
56 To ask why we fight, is to ask why the leaves fall.
我们生而为战，犹如树叶自会飘落。
57 Look back, and smile on perils past.
回首往事，向过去的苦难微笑。
58 You're not alone. You still have family, people who care for you and want to save you.
你并非孤身一人，你还有那些在乎你、想要拯救你的人，那就是你的家人。——X战警：天启
59 Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.
像你明天就会离世那样生活，像你可以永葆青春那样学习。
60 That it will never come again is what makes life sweet.
生活不会重来，这正是它美好的原因。
61 Fortune favors the bold.
好运眷顾勇者。
62 Only those who capture the moment are real.
把握当下才是真。
63 Life is too short for long-term grudges.
人生短暂，何必长期心怀怨念。
64 It's better to have fought and lost, than never to have fought at all.
战败总好过不战而降。
65 My personal failure has only strengthened my resolve to make things right.
我个人的失败只会坚定我匡正万事的决心。——《分歧者3：忠诚世界》
66 Refrain from excess.
凡事不要过度。
67 there is always a better way.
总有更好的办法。
68 I can't control their fear, only my own.
我不能掌控他人的恐惧，只能掌控自己的恐惧。——《美国队长：内战》
69 I argue thee that love is life. And life hath immortality.
我告诉你，爱就是生命，生命可以不朽。
70 If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of.
如果你热爱生活，就不要浪费时间，因为生活是由时间组成的。——李小龙
71 Life itself is the most wonderful fairy tale.
生活本身就是最美妙的童话故事。——安徒生
72 No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.
善行再小，也不白费。——伊索寓言
73 A room without books is like a body without a soul.
居无书，犹如人无魂。
74 Sometimes accompanied sometimes alone, stay awesome all the time.
聚散终有时，潇洒走一回。——《纽约纽约》
75 You can't do it — that's the biggest lie on earth.
世界上最大的谎言就是你不行。——《垫底辣妹》
76 Years fly by, but the heart stays in the same place.
时光飞逝，但我心依旧。
77 A good book is an event in my life.
读一本好书是我的人生大事。——《红与黑》
78 I like the night. Without the dark, we'd never see the stars.
我喜欢黑夜。如果没有黑暗，我们永远看不到繁星点点。——《暮光之城》
79 A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.
敢于浪费一个小时的人，没有发现生命的价值。——达尔文
80 A bird is safe in its nest — but that is not what its wings are made for.
小鸟在巢中最安全，但翅膀可不是为此而生的。——阿米特·雷
81 Worse than not realizing the dreams of your youth would be to have been young and never dreamed at all.
最糟糕的不是未能实现年轻时的梦想，而是年轻时根本没有梦想。——Jean Genet
82 Laugh loudly, laugh often, and most important, laugh at yourself.
要放声笑，经常笑，最重要的是为自己而欢笑。——Chelsea Handler
83 There are no easy answers, there's only living through the questions.
生活从来没有容易的答案，只有去克服重重问题。——伊丽莎白·乔治
84 There are no easy answers, there's only living through the questions.
生活从来没有容易的答案，只有去克服重重问题。——伊丽莎白·乔治
85 To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly.
生存就意味着去改变，改变就意味着成熟，而成熟就意味着孜孜不倦地创造自我。——亨利·伯格森
86 The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive, but to move ahead, to go up, to achieve, to conquer.
生命的意义不仅在于简单的存在与活着，而是去前行、进步、获取和征服。——阿诺·施瓦辛格
87 The stars change, but the mind remains the same.
繁星纵变，但智慧永恒。——悉尼大学校训
88 I would die for you. But I won't live for you.
我愿意为你赴死，但不会指望你而活。——斯蒂芬·切波斯基
89 Whatever you do, do not let go!
不管你做什么，都不要放弃！—— 《疯狂动物城》
90 You can't stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.
你不能在森林的角落里等待他人来找你，有时候你要主动去找别人。—— 《小熊维尼》
91 When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
当你心有所求，全宇宙都会去帮你得到它。—— 《牧羊少年奇幻之旅》
92 Nothing is impossible, the word itself says "I'm possible"!
没有不可能，连“不可能”这个词自己都说：“不，可能！”—— 奥黛丽·赫本
93 No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
未经你的许可，没人能让你妄自菲薄。—— 埃莉诺·罗斯福
94 It's no use going back to yesterday, because I was a different person then.
回到昨天毫无用处，因为今天的我已和过去有所不同。——《爱丽丝梦游仙境》
95 It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting.
梦想有可能成为现实，生活因此而有趣。——《牧羊少年奇幻之旅》
96 The longest way must have its close; the gloomiest night will wear on to a morning.
最长的路也有尽头，最黑暗的夜晚也会迎接清晨。——《汤姆叔叔的小屋》
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